Tom Winiecki

TEACHING SPORTSMANSHIP
Written by: Tom Winiecki, Mott Road Elementary School, Fayetteville, NY

As educators, we are always looking for lessons to teach and reinforce different skills. We attend conferences, read journals, visit web sites like this one, and pick other teachers’ brains. All in an effort to find something new and effective.

We may come across a great lesson that reinforces controlling a ball. It may fit right into what you are teaching at the time. Eureka! (Does anyone really say “eureka” anymore?) This fits perfectly. Well, guess what? If you can’t figure out a way to re-hit this concept of control throughout the year, your students will soon lose anything they learned with your great find of a lesson. If your kids think “control” only looks like dribbling a basketball, then they didn’t learn the encompassing concept of “control.” If they learn that “control” means keeping something close while moving, they have grasped a more meaningful concept; their learning has more meaning. Now they understand what you expect when they learn to control a basketball, hockey stick, soccer ball, paddle, or maybe even a lacrosse stick (yes, I am from Central New York).

You see, by re-hitting this concept throughout the school year, your students see all the ways that it can be applied, and how important it is for them to learn it. The same goes for things like sportsmanship. Concepts like sportsmanship cannot be taught in one lesson. It can’t be taught by addressing it a few times throughout the school year. It is one of those things that has to be constantly taught and expected of all students all the time.

Project Adventure” activities, for example, are designed in part to build and reinforce sportsmanship, teamwork, and the like. There are other things involved as well with these activities. I just wanted to focus on the sportsmanship aspect. We all have so much to cover in our comprehensive curriculums. Activities like “Project Adventure” are terrific, but they can’t cover everything. There are so many more physical “skills” for you to teach in a year.

There is one “skill” (if you can call it that) that you can teach all year. That skill is “sportsmanship.” The good thing about this is that it can constantly be going in the background of everything else you do. Teaching our students to be good sports and good teammates can be done at any level in the elementary school. Just make it an expectation within everything your kids do. Just as you taught your kids what “control” looks like in the beginning of the article, you can also tell and show them what sportsmanship looks like.

For example, when you cover low organized games with your primary grades, you can easily set the stage by asking your students a question like: “What kind of person would your mom like you to invite over to your house to play?” You can get into all kinds of discussions about kids that “play fair,” or are “nice.” Just take it a step further. Have them tell you what “play fair” or “is nice” looks like. Lead them through a discussion about how adults like it when children take turns, share, say “please” and “thank you,” and help someone who gets hurt. Now, you have given your students a mental picture of what “play fair,” or “is nice” looks like. You have also snuck in your expectations of their behavior, regardless of what activity you happen to be using at the time.

Now, during breaks in your class, it becomes easy to highlight different students that demonstrate good sportsmanship. You may end up saying something like, “I just saw something good. I just saw someone fall down. That wasn’t the good part; I never want to see someone get hurt. The good part was that I also saw someone else come up to that person and ask if he was okay. The helpful student even tried to help him back up! It must be great to have people here that want to help others!”

When you resume the activity, just watch what happens the next time someone goes down. You may end up having more than one “little helper.” You may think that the kids only do this because they think you want them to. Just be sure to always make a point of it in the context of “being a good helper,” or “it must be fun to play with kids that want to help.” Now you have moved the emphasis away from doing it because you say to, toward doing it because other kids will appreciate it. You’ve shown them what “good sportsmanship” looks like!

In essence, you are not teaching them the game, rather you are teaching them how to act when playing a game. The number of “points” scored is no longer the emphasis. The emphasis now is more on learning how to enjoy the activity for activity’s sake. “Winning” is now defined as being a good teammate or a good friend and all that it encompasses (and looks like). It is not defined as who has the most points at the end. The good part is that you don’t have to wait to be in “low organized games” to apply this idea. It can be used in any teaching arena. There are so many “teachable moments” out there.

For example, I just finished teaching a tumbling unit to our K-4 kids. I would often need to have a student demonstrate a new skill. To do that, I told the kids that I needed to find someone who was “ready.” I told them that “ready” looked like two kids working hard on their skills, and then quickly sitting at the home end of their mat as soon as I say, “Go Home!” The first time I get a mat that is ready quickly; I tell the classes that I was able to pick this mat because they were working hard on their skills and sat down as soon as I said, “Go home. They didn’t stop after just a few tries. They kept working until they heard the signal. Nice job kids!” You know that they all want to be a demonstrator. Just put them in a position to act positively, so they are able to fill this role.

It doesn’t always have to be finding positive behavior. You can call out poor behavior as well. In the same tumbling unit, I would get a mat that was ready right away to demonstrate. In their initial effort, the students may make honest mistakes and someone else would laugh at them. Again, another teachable moment. I let them know right away that it is not acceptable, but not just because I said so. I will say something like, “I don’t know about you, but I would be upset if someone laughed at my best effort.” Then I leave it at that. By saying it this way, I call out the poor behavior (laughing at a fellow student) while simultaneously acknowledging the demonstrator’s good initial effort. I give my demonstrator another chance; this time the tone is set. Mistakes do happen. They are nothing to be laughed at, because they can be fixed with perseverance.

It doesn’t have to be limited to tumbling. Mistakes happen every day in our classes. Our job is to get our kids to embrace their mistakes; try to help them understand that they can learn from them, and encourage them not to run from them. Again, we can ask our students, “Would you like to play with someone at your house that laughs at your mistakes, or who helps you fix them?” You’re not asking them to do something because it pleases you. Rather you are leading them toward behaving in a way that benefits themselves and others. It may start out as good sportsmanship, but it will evolve to good citizenship.

Every once in a while, you will hear someone comment about the “rat race” that is so easy to fall into as adults. We are reminded that we “can’t take it with us,” or “you don’t win by having the most stuff at the end.” You are just teaching this same lesson to your students. We want them to enjoy the process (being active), not being overly concerned about the product (“winning the game”).

Teaching sportsmanship doesn’t have to be limited to the athletic arena. We can teach it every day in our physical education classes. It’s the “unit” that you teach all year long!

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